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Wedding Crazy:
Creating
the Perfect Wedding Dance
Tips for Success
When planning a wedding
there are numerous details for couples to decide upon and attend to.
There’s the reception site, flowers, the cake and all of the food to
deal with, not to mention finding the absolute perfect dress. And of
course, there’s the music, an essential part of the wedding reception.
But what many couples tend to forget amid all of the planning is the
ever important first bridal dance.
The first dance as husband and wife will be one of the most memorable
moments of the entire wedding event. Cameras will be rolling and all
eyes will be on the happy newlyweds as they engage in their first joint
venture, their very first dance as a married couple.
While this happy scene invokes a sense of romance and sentimentality
among most of us, to the bride or groom-to-be that has never danced or
feels uneasy on the dance floor, it can invoke a sense of anxiety and
fear. This doesn’t have to be the case, and it really shouldn’t be
something that causes apprehension, after all this is a happy joyous
occasion!
Consider the following simple tips to help make your first wedding dance
a beautiful highlight of your wedding reception.
First, Learn the Moves
If you’re apprehensive about dancing in front of all of your friends and
family on your wedding day, why not consider taking some lessons before
the big day? Dance lessons are a gift you can give yourselves that will
last long after the last guest has gone home. The ideal time to begin is
usually three to four months before the wedding, but the sooner the
better.
The less pressure one feels makes a big difference in how easily they
pick up on the various moves or steps. Look at it as a new hobby to do
together in preparation for your special day! Not only will you be able
to glide beautifully across the dance floor at your own wedding, but
think of all the other weddings, parties, vacations and events where
your newfound knowledge of dancing will come in handy.
Decide on the Type of Dance
There are numerous types and styles of dances to choose from when it
comes to picking the perfect wedding dance. And remember, the couple’s
first dance can set the tone for the rest of the wedding reception. If
one or both of you look uncomfortable, your guests may be reluctant to
join in on the fun!
If you don’t already have a specific song in mind for your first dance,
consider choosing something relatively short, but long enough to show
off the skills and confidence that you’ll have. In a professional dance
competition songs average about three minutes in length, if it’s long
enough for the experts, it should be long enough for you, too! An
instructor or professional can gear you toward the right selection for
the mood you wish to elicit at your reception as well.
Many couples decide on the Waltz or Foxtrot as they are great standards
and many songs have a tempo that works well with either choice. These
two dances have been popular for countless years and many people are
familiar with them and enjoy them immensely. The Waltz is characterized
by a distinct undulating quality that features a rise and fall technique
along with shoulder sways and has always been considered a beautiful
form of dance.
Other popular choices for a couple’s first dance are the Two-Step, the
Rumba, the Samba and the Cha Cha. As it is purely a matter of taste, a
first dance can also be something like the Salsa or Swing for a really
upbeat, fun mood. Many people choose something unique to their heritage
such as a Polka, a Tango or other dance native to their culture.
Next, Choose Your Song Wisely
Most couples plan their wedding so that the decorations or the general
theme reflects their personalities and who they are. Finding the perfect
wedding dance can also add to that list of personalized touches. Start
by compiling a list of favorite songs or ones that have a special
meaning between the two of you.
Then begin the task of narrowing down your choices until you have a set
that you are both comfortable with. Try them out with the style of dance
you’ve chosen and see what works the best. While you should always pick
a song that you both love, it’s important to choose one that works with
the dance steps you know as well.
Remember, Practice Makes Perfect!
What could be more fun than spending some quality time with your beloved
during the hectic time of planning a wedding than learning how to dance
together? While the first dance between a man and his new wife is a
private moment filled with love and emotion, it’s still one that is
shared in front of your guests.
With a few weeks, or better yet months, of practice anyone can learn
some simple moves and be ready to dance the night away!
Have Fun Along with a Can-Do Attitude
It’s important to realize that this isn’t a dance competition, your
family and friends won’t be checking to see if you’ve missed a step or
two and checking off a score card. They’ll be too busy looking at the
joy and happiness on both of your faces to notice mistakes.
Always remember that if you can walk, you can learn to dance, regardless
if you consider yourself to be the owner of two left feet or not. Think
positive and you will surely have positive results!
Relax and Enjoy Your Special Day
Remember that above all else, this is the best day of your life and one
that you should enjoy tremendously. Put all of your heart and soul into
your first dance with your betrothed and lose yourself in the moment.
All that you’ve learned about dancing will come naturally and you’ll be
able to exude a sense of confidence as well as happiness.
And if you’ve kept the fact that the two of you have learned a few new
moves a secret, imagine the surprise and amazement of your guests!
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